New · Real-time AI Mediator

The AI that fights fair

When conversations heat up, Ravel steps in. Real-time mediation that helps couples de-escalate, understand each other, and find resolution — without the waiting room.

No therapist appointment needed · Available 24/7 · Bilingual EN/한국어

How Mediator Works

From argument to understanding in 3 steps

No scheduling. No waiting rooms. Just real help when you need it.

Start

Start a session

One partner opens a mediator session and describes what's going on. Add context — what happened, how you're feeling, what you need.

Talk

Talk it out

Both partners share their perspective. Type how you feel, what triggered you, what you wish was different. Ravel reads everything in real time.

Resolve

Ravel guides you

Ravel identifies patterns, de-escalates tension, and offers evidence-based suggestions. You get clarity, understanding, and a path forward.

Voice mode coming soon — speak naturally and Ravel mediates in real time.
From real couples

What couples are saying

Real stories from people who found their way back to each other

We were headed for a breakup. Ravel's mediator helped us actually hear each other for the first time in months.

Anonymous

Together 3 years · London

Mediator user

It's like having a neutral third person in the room. Except it's 2am and we can't afford a therapist at 2am.

J. & S.

Together 1 year · Seoul

Plus member

The daily prompts brought us closer than date nights did. We actually talk about real things now.

Anonymous

Engaged · Manchester

Couples features
Coming from real couples: These are early user experiences. Full case studies coming soon.
Ravel vs Traditional Therapy

Why couples choose Ravel

Not a replacement for therapy — a complement that's there when therapy can't be

Feature
Ravel
Traditional Therapy
Availability
24/7, whenever you need it
Weekly appointments, 1-2 week wait
Cost per month
From £4.99/mo (Plus)
£60-150 per session
Real-time help
Instant mediator during fights
Schedule a session days later
Languages
English & 한국어
Usually one language only
Anonymous
No judgment, no stigma
In-person vulnerability
Evidence-based
Grounded in Gottman, EFT, NVC research
Yes, plus clinical expertise
Important:Ravel is not a substitute for professional therapy. For serious issues, please consult a licensed therapist. Ravel works best alongside professional help.
Real-time AI Mediator · Evidence-based · Anonymous

The AI that fights fair

When conversations heat up, Ravel steps in. Real-time mediation for couples — plus evidence-based advice, daily prompts, and shared goals.

Based on research from Gottman, Perel, Brown & 50+ more experts

How it works

Three steps from confusion to clarity

STEP 1

Speak or type your situation

Tell us what's happening — out loud or in writing. No scripts, no forms.

STEP 2

AI analyzes 1,000+ evidence-based sources

We search through curated knowledge from Gottman, Perel, Brown, Levine, and dozens more.

STEP 3

Get structured DO/DON'T/WHY guidance

Clear, actionable advice with the reasoning and sources behind every recommendation.

What makes us different

Not just another chatbot

Generic AI
Ravel
Sources
Makes things up
Cites real experts
Structure
Wall of text
DO / DON'T / WHY format
Safety
No crisis handling
Crisis-aware with resources
Grounding
Generic platitudes
Evidence-based specifics

22 topics covered

From everyday communication to rebuilding after betrayal

Communication

Arguments, not listening, feeling unheard, criticism

Conflict & Arguments

Recurring fights, heated arguments, unresolved issues

Intimacy & Connection

Feeling distant, lost spark, physical intimacy issues

Trust & Honesty

Trust issues, jealousy, secrets, rebuilding trust

Money & Finances

Financial disagreements, spending conflicts, financial stress

Family & In-Laws

Boundary issues, in-law conflicts, extended family

Infidelity & Betrayal

Cheating, emotional affairs, rebuilding after betrayal

Thinking About Leaving

Should I stay?, breakup considerations, divorce

Jealousy & Insecurity

Jealousy, possessiveness, comparison, self-worth

Boundaries

Personal space, saying no, overstepping, people-pleasing

Emotional Support

Feeling unsupported, emotional needs, loneliness

Long Distance

Long distance relationship challenges, staying connected

Commitment Questions

Moving in, getting engaged, timing, readiness

Safety & Control

Controlling behaviour, emotional abuse, recognising red flags

Personal Growth

Growing apart, changing values, supporting each other's growth

Sex & Physical

Mismatched desire, sexual concerns, physical connection

Cultural Differences

Intercultural relationships, family expectations, traditions

Grief & Loss Together

Loss, miscarriage, supporting a grieving partner

Mental Health

Depression, anxiety, ADHD, bipolar, supporting a partner with mental illness

Addiction & Recovery

Substance abuse, gambling, recovery, codependency, boundaries with an addict

Parenting Together

New parent conflict, discipline differences, co-parenting, blended families

Built on solid ground

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free, no signup required

From the reading list

Books behind every piece of advice

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

The Seven Principles for Mak…

Gottman

Hold Me Tight

Hold Me Tight

S. Johnson

Nonviolent Communication

Nonviolent Communication

Rosenberg

Daring Greatly

Daring Greatly

B. Brown

Attached

Attached

Levine & Heller

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